Radical Acceptance: What it is NOT….

In the last few posts I have written about what how to gain peace through the practice of radical acceptance and the key principals of practicing radical acceptance. However, it is important to understand what radical acceptance is NOT:

1. Radical acceptance is not resignation: Accepting reality does not mean giving up or resigning oneself to undesirable situations. It is about acknowledging what is happening without denying or avoiding it, and then, if possible, taking appropriate action to address or change the circumstances.

2. Radical acceptance is not approval: Accepting reality does not imply condoning or approving of everything that occurs. It is about acknowledging the truth of the situation, and how it makes you feel, even if it is challenging or painful. But know our acceptance does not necessarily mean we agree with or endorse it.

3. Radical acceptance is not passivity: Acceptance does not equate to inaction. It means acknowledging the present moment and making conscious choices about how to respond or act in a way that aligns with our values and goals.

4. Radical acceptance is not avoiding emotions: Acceptance does not mean suppressing or denying our emotions. It involves allowing ourselves to feel and experience the full range of emotions that arise in response to the reality we are facing.

5. Radical acceptance is not a one-time event: Acceptance is an ongoing practice that requires patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to continually return to the present moment. It is a process of continually acknowledging and embracing what is, even as circumstances change.

Remember, radical acceptance is a tool that can help cultivate inner peace and reduce suffering. It is a mindset that empowers us to navigate life's challenges with clarity and resilience.

Blogger's note: This blog post is for conversation and learning purposes only. Any well-being posts by the Crafty Damselfly Blog are in no way meant to diagnose or treat any illness. If you have any health concerns please see a licensed healthcare professional.

Related posts:

1. Feel the Feeling: Overview of -"Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life" by Susan David

2. Gaining Peace Through Radical Acceptance: It is ok to not be ok.

3. Key Principals of Radical Acceptance